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Feeling A Little Encouraged

Several months ago, possibly even more than a year ago, I came across this writing about the difference between resignation and acceptance.  At the time, I knew I was resigned to the death of my son, and had no inclination toward acceptance of it.  I hoped, though, I would some day move closer to that elusive state of acceptance.

I came across this writing again while browsing through my desk drawer, looking for who-knows-what.  When I first read it again, I thought I was still in the same place I was months ago, and was a little disappointed in myself.  But upon my second (or third) reading of it, I began to realize – my faith, which had taken a huge blow after my son died in a car accident, is healthier than I believed it was.

Isn’t God amazing?  I love how He is really and truly true to His word.  He really never leaves us or forsakes us.  He has stood by my side through all of the anger, disappointment, and sorrow.  Even when I wanted nothing to do with Him (which was never really true, but felt like it), He stayed with me, encouraging me to keep on keeping on, and loving me, just like He always has.  

Here is the excerpt I read many months ago, and again recently:

“Resignation is surrender to fate.

    Acceptance is surrender to God.

Resignation lies down quietly in an empty universe.

    Acceptance rises up to meet the God who fills the universe with purpose and destiny.

Resignation says, ‘I can’t.’

    Acceptance says, ‘God can.’

Resignation paralyzes the life process.

    Acceptance releases the process for its greatest creativity.

Resignation says, ‘It’s all over for me.’

    Acceptance asks, ‘Now that I am here, what’s next, Lord?’

Resignation says, ‘What a waste.’

    Acceptance says, ‘In what redemptive way will you use this mess, Lord?’

Resignation says, ‘I am alone.’

    Acceptance says, ‘I belong to you, O God.'”

By Creath Davis, Lord If I Ever Needed You It’s Now

As I consider the journey I’ve been on the past 3 years, grieving the loss of my middle child, in light of this piece, I have a difficult time distinguishing resignation from acceptance if I don’t look at it in light of the living God.  In fact, I don’t know how there could be acceptance at all without the light of the living God.  He comforts in the most painful circumstances and brings His perfect light into the darkest places.  He is my hope of glory.  He is the reason I can accept anything.  

“I lift up my eyes to the mountains; From where shall my help come?  My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth.  He will not allow your foot to slip; He who keeps you will not slumber.  Behold, He who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep.  The Lord is your keeper; The Lord is your shade on your right hand.  The sun will not smite you by day, nor the moon by night.  The Lord will protect you from all evil; He will keep your soul.  The Lord will guard your going out and your coming in from this time forth and forever.”  Psalm 121




2 comments on “Feeling A Little Encouraged

  1. ssgrovesgang says:

    I don’t know how people live with all it’s trials and challenges without the Lord. It seems we all have difficulty at some point in our lives. Most people we know are going through some challenging circumstances. We rarely know the personal struggles of others. But God… He always provides people to come alongside us, whether we’re aware of it or not, to lift us up in prayer or to speak a word of encouragement or to just to be a listening ear when we so desperately need to be heard. He knows what we need and when we need it in our journey. We are all in process. I’ve found the key is to remember that it is a journey, not a destination and my job is to encourage, pray and support those whom the Lord puts on my heart and trust their process to Him. Doing this let’s me know that when I’m the one in need, whether I’ve spoken to anyone else about the situation or not that He already has other people doing the same thing for me, whether they make themselves known to me or not. So glad that He is revealing to you that you are farther along than you sometimes can see. Be encouraged! Nothing is ever wasted in His economy. He is using you! He is walking closely by watching over your journey. You are in process… You are changing from glory to glory. Others are seeing Him in and through you. You have been and are a good and faithful servant. Don’t rush coming out of the healing tent. Others are doing warfare on your behalf. Rest in His presence. Trust in His timing. Be assured that His Grace will continue to carry you through. You matter. You are not forgotten. You are making an impact in the Kingdom. You are much loved!


    1. Thank you, Sally. I appreciate your beautiful words of encouragement more than I can express. Love you.

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