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I wish I had written this! It says what I wish I were far enough along in this grief journey to know how to say. Thank you, Melanie, for sharing your wisdom on life after child loss.

thelifeididntchoose

If I touch a hot stove my hand jerks away almost before my mind registers the searing pain.  It’s reflex. Our bodies were designed to react to and protect us from things that cause pain.

Run away.  Don’t go back.  Set up barricades and warning signs so that others can be protected.

Most of the time, this reaction serves us well.

But sometimes those reflexes keep us from healing.

Anyone who’s had major surgery knows that when the nurses come in the next morning saying, “We’re going to get you out of bed today!”, the last thing you want to do is swing your legs over and stand up.  It HURTS!

We want to avoid what hurts, not embrace it.

So it’s no surprise that when we suffer deep emotional wounds, our first response is to try to run away or bury them or ignore…

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